Diet Advertising Reaches New Low (Low)

Where do I even begin today, on this new ad? First, I will disclose that I was recently asked to participate in a focus group on the ad by the ad agency just before it was released, which I refused to do, as I would not agree to have my name associated with a food that is so blatantly ‘diet’ related.

Imagine my relief because I had refused then when I saw the actual Ad. Words failed me. It is BEYOND ironic.

The ad, whilst SAYING they are against the cliched images of skinny women jumping around whilst happily eating a presumably diet yoghurt or looking miserable because they can’t eat a muffin, ACTUALLY shows nothing BUT skinny women jumping around whilst happily eating yoghurt or looking miserable because they can’t eat the muffin. I saw NO ‘normal’ women, and today in Ireland normal is ‘overweight’, in the ad, and nobody DID eat a muffin. I didn’t see anyone just enjoying eating a regular meal, or a sandwich, or fitting into their size 14 jeans (not size 8) and getting on with their day.

This is the worst type of reverse psychology, because it’s like saying to you “Don’t think of an orange car”.

What did you just think of?

100 Volunteers Needed for Clinical Trial – Online Eating Disorders Program

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Dublin City University (Ireland) and The Turning Institute are seeking volunteers with Bulimia or a Binge Eating Disorder to participate in a study commencing in April 2013.  

Participants (male or female) are invited to enrol free of charge in a 12-week online program for Bulimia/Binge Eating Disorder. All you need is a computer and internet access.

We will ask you to complete a questionnaire before the program begins, to give us brief weekly feedback on the usefulness of the online sessions and to participate in an online focus group upon completion of the program.

All participation, including in the online sessions, is completely anonymous.  This study has been approved by the DCU Research Ethics Committee.

If you are interested in taking part, please contact info@turninginstitute.com. Please feel free to use a pseudonym in all e-mail correspondence if you wish to protect your anonymity, and set up a pseudonymous hotmail or gmail address for the same reason if you do not wish to be identified.

Please see our website http://www.turninginstitute.com for more information on us and our program.

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Two Ways of Thinking About Your Weight…

Today’s post is about celebrating difference and the ability to be free within yourself. So many women and men I work with put their lives on hold “until I’ve lost weight”.  The plans they have! The imaginary lives they are leading in the future “when I’m a size 14″! Meanwhile, months, maybe years of the best, most productive time of their life is passing by. Unrecognised. Undervalued. Wasted really.

So I’m posting links to two great videos, each featuring a man.  One big black guy, one big white guy.  Each found their own way to be happy within themselves.  I hope you can find YOUR own way to be happy within YOURself too.

This is the first video.  I love it when I see people who are just authentic and true to themselves, without caring at all how others perceive them.  What a sense of freedom!

This is the second video, and tells a different story.  It seems simplistic, but it took a long time and a lot of work for Ben to get from where he was to where he is.  It was hard work, but so rewarding for him. This is what he personally wanted to do for HIMSELF.

Two big guys, two very different attitudes to their own bodies.  I hope you are inspired and motivated by these two men, to first begin to accept who you are and start living your life NOW (not waiting until you’ve lost weight), and then, if it’s what YOU want, to begin working on getting to where you want to be in terms of losing weight.  But again, remember to start doing at least some the stuff you want to do, NOW.  The weight is not the reason you’re not doing it.  Now might be the time to stop hiding behind the excuse of being ‘too big’ to do stuff.  What’s the REAL reason why you’re not dancing your ass off today?

Thinking of Asking for Help with an ED? Read on…

One of the issues that bugs me more than any other when new clients come to see me for the first time, is when I hear how disastrous their first, or first few, attempts at asking for help were.  GP’s (or Physicians/MD’s in the States), who pull out Food Pyramids and hand them over.  Nutritionists or Dieticians who tell clients that 2,000 calories is the ‘normal’ intake for a ‘normal’ female.  And Psychotherapists or Counsellors who do not understand eating disorders, taking on eating disordered clients and then fail to connect due to their lack of knowledge of this specialised area.  It’s hard enough for sufferers to ask for help anyway, without having to experience professionals who don’t know how to help them.

Being a ‘Can Do’ person, I decided to produce a podcast that would help anyone thinking of asking for help from a Professional, to make the best decision possible for them.  I cannot guarantee that you will still get it right first time round, but the podcast also covers how to ‘break up’ with a health professional and move on to someone more suited to you personally.

Please note the podcast video may not stream on a mobile device.

As always, your feedback is welcome.

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Procrastination – What’s Stopping You From Getting Things Done?

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There was an interesting discussion on one of my LinkedIn groups recently, about procrastination.   A fellow Therapist asked if it might be linked to Loss and Closure – a client of hers had recently suffered several losses and difficult events, and was now very badly stuck and not completing or even tackling certain tasks that she needed to get done.  This Therapist asked the group if we felt the procrastination was masking the client’s fear of completing the tasks, as for her it would represent the end of a period of her life, which in the context of the bereavement and illness she had suffered, would move her to a different place where perhaps she perceived she would have to ‘stop grieving’ and ‘move on’.

There was a good response to this post from the group, most of whom are Therapists.  In the main, it was felt that no one ‘reason’ underpinned procrastination – people procrastinate for all sorts of reasons, conscious and sub-conscious.

I was particularly interested because I would previously have classed myself as a serious procrastinator, but I don’t any longer because I brought it to supervision* once, and during the discussion with my Supervisor, we determined that I procrastinate for four reasons:

1.    It’s not procrastination, it’s my form of time and task management.  I work better under pressure, so the nearer the deadline, the more likely I am to focus and get something done.

2.    I rely heavily on my gut instinct, which rarely lets me down.  I will often delay doing something and be aware that I’m putting it off.  I now check in with myself mindfully when I realise I’m delaying something, to see how I feel about doing that task.  If it doesn’t feel right, I don’t do it, and invariably something will then happen to either change the nature of the task, or cancel the need for me to do it altogether.  So by waiting, I often end up with a shorter, or different ‘To Do’ list than I first had, and this saves me time and effort.

3.    Being honest, I really dislike administrative, paperwork type tasks, and I also hate inefficiency.  So if the Bank ask me to print off a form, sign it, and post it back, the fact that I can’t scan and email it on the spot annoys me so much, that I react like a petulant child and delay doing it.  It usually has more of a negative impact on me than the Bank, who don’t care, but it still happens.  So if a task like this arises now, I try to overcome my own annoyance at the Bank’s ‘stupid system’ and just do the task.

4.    There are other tasks I just hate doing, like ironing. So I now pay someone to do my ironing and I am a much happier and less stressed wife/mother as a result.

Bringing my procrastination to supervision was one of the most productive things I’ve ever done, because I now no longer beat myself up about not getting things done.  Instead I check in with myself and ask myself which reason is at play.  Then I either (1) schedule the task for near, but not too close to, the deadline; (2) wait and see what happens; (3) grit my teeth and do it; or (4) pay/ask someone else to do it.  No guilt, no stress, no letting others down or running into trouble later for not doing something.

Procrastination and Eating Disorders
Working with clients who struggle with food, weight and body image, we talk about procrastination a LOT.  In fact, it was a discussion with a client that prompted me to bring the issue to my supervision in the first place.  Many of my clients have long lists of things they want to do, and accomplish, but they are all in the future – an imagined future where they have overcome their binge eating, or lost two stone, or have gone back to a size 12, or are ‘in a better place’.  For example:

“I really hate my job, and I actually always wanted to be a teacher, but when it comes to applying for the course I never go through with it because…..

“I’d love to have a nice boyfriend/girlfriend, but I don’t put myself out there because…..

“I really want to do my Masters, but I haven’t finished my research proposal because….

“We’d love to start a family, but how can I be a good mother when….

“I’ve always wanted to travel, and I’ve been saving for several years but….

Sound familiar?

And it impacts on everyday life too.  Clients really struggle with getting simple things done, and although there are a variety of reasons, there are some common ones:

1.    FEAR.  If I don’t try it, then I don’t risk failing.

2.    TRUST.  If I enter into a relationship with someone, they will probably end up hurting me, and I don’t want to be hurt.

3.    BOUNDARIES. Someone else is having an impact on the client and preventing the client from being able to be assertive, and clearly ask for what they want/need.

4.    SELF-WORTH. I don’t deserve to be happy, this goal is just a dream – it will never happen in real life.

5.    CHANGE.  Something about the vision or completion of the task, big or small, suggests that the client will be in some way different to how they are now (sometimes including the felt sense that they will have overcome their ED), and that’s too scary a thought – who would I be without this?

How to Stop Procrastinating
If you procrastinate, take some time to sit down and have a long and honest chat with yourself, or someone else, about it. You should be able to resolve at least some of your reasons for putting things off by doing this, like I did.  If you make a profound connection between your procrastination and something that is going on or did occur in your life, like the client in the Therapist’s example earlier, then I would recommend you seek professional help from a Therapist to resolve that issue.  If you are nervous about getting help for some reason, then you might want to listen to this Podcast I recorded previously on Getting Help for the First Time: Asking for Help with ED

If you are putting things off whilst you wait for something else to happen e.g. to overcome your ED, to stop bingeing, to lose weight, to feel better, I would ask you to try one or both of these exercises, just to see if they shift your perception a little.

Write down what it is you want to do (Activity).  “I want to travel”

Write down why you are not doing it (Excuse). “I don’t feel good about myself/confident I can do it”

Now write ”Even though (excuse) I don’t feel confident that I can (activity) travel on my own, (PLAN) I am going to start looking into it and begin to put together a plan for going”.

Then pick a date when you might envisage yourself doing the activity, and work from there.  Whenever you find yourself making excuses, write an “Even Though” statement and see what happens.

Finally, if you are really conflicted about letting go of something, from a full blown Eating Disorder to Yo-Yo dieting, or just constantly weighing yourself and stressing about your weight/body, then try using this tool to clarify what’s going on for you, and decide what you can do NOW to begin introducing change.

Don’t put it off, do it NOW.

*All Therapists are required to attend supervision regularly with a more senior, experienced Therapist, to ensure they are delivering a safe and ethical service to their clients.  During supervision Therapists review their case work and check in with anything that has come up for them personally as a result of working with clients.

Feeling Unhealthy? It Could Be What You Are Eating…

This blog is taken from an article I wrote for thejournal.ie earlier in the year.  It has become timely now because YouSteps have also written a great blog on the same issue, the link to their blog is below.  Read on…

I MENTIONED IN a previous article that the US is now seeing a new phenomenon, an obese child who is also malnourished.

How can this be happening in a first world country? It’s down to the highly processed, refined foods we eat today. As much as two thirds of our average calorie intake is from fat, sugar and refined flours. The calories in these foods are “empty” because they provide no nutrients, and are often hidden in processed foods and snacks that usually weigh little but satisfy our appetite instantly.

For instance, two sweet biscuits provide more calories than 1lb of carrots and are considerably easier to eat – but they provide no vitamins or minerals. If two thirds of your diet (by calories) consists of such “empty” foods, there is little room left to take in the amount of essential nutrients your body needs to function properly. (Holford, 2004).

Recommended daily allowances (RDA) of nutrients are set by Governments, vary by country, and are set at a ‘prevent illness’ level – e.g. preventing rickets (lack of Vitamin D), or scurvy (lack of Vitamin C). They are NOT at a “promoting full wellness” level. So in order to feel really well and for optimum functioning, our intake should be considerably higher than the RDA.

If we consider how deficient the average daily diet is in ‘dense nutrition’, and how low the RDAs are, your ‘five a day’ of fruit and vegetables just isn’t going to give you everything you need. The ‘five a day’ guideline should come as well as a balanced, nutritionally dense diet of high quality protein, complex carbohydrate and the right sorts of fats – but that is not what we are eating.

So what does ‘nutritionally dense’ mean? Well, as an example, wheat has twenty five nutrients removed from it in the refining process that turns it into white flour, but only four (iron, B1, B2 and B3) are replaced. On average, 87 per cent of the essential minerals such as zinc, chromium and manganese are lost. This is why you might hear nutritionists say that there’s about as much nutritional value in the packaging of white bread as in the bread itself. It is nutritionally almost worthless.

‘Bread is a good place to start’

As an experiment, I would ask you to do some investigating. Bread is a good place to start. You can do this experiment in your own supermarket but in Ireland, I suggest the next time you are in Dunnes (who stock all the following), take a few minutes to do a comparison of different types of bread. First, compare a pack of Irish Pride Wholemeal or Wholegrain bread, with any other brand – Pat the Baker, Dunnes own brand, Brennans. In my personal opinion, Irish Pride is the least bad of the manufactured breads, containing no E-numbers and the fewest added ingredients.

Now, get a pack of the new McCloskeys bread, which will be in the ‘artisan’ or ‘specialist’ bread section. McCloskeys are an independent bakery based in Drogheda. Compare their ingredient list to any of the others. You’ll find McCloskeys has what you want to see on a loaf of bread – no added unpronounceable ingredients, just the basics. Soul Bakery are another Irish bakery who make pure breads and cakes, look at their labels in comparison to, say, a loaf of ‘Lindens’ – which very cleverly markets itself as being wholesome and ‘good for you’. After comparing the labels, do you still think so?

Again in a previous article, I commented that an apple today has only approximately one third of the nutritional content it had back in the 1940s. This is because of our current food production methods. Non-organic fruit and vegetables are far less nutritious than they used to be – because they are forced to grow, year round, out of season, with the use of fertilisers and other growth promoting chemicals. This significantly dilutes their nutritional value, with the exception being organic produce.

Food production is a multi-billion dollar industry, and the food producers are a powerful lobby group. Similar to pharmaceutical companies, they hold a lot of power with governments – they provide hundreds of thousands of jobs, they are a fundamental part of stock exchange activity (“commodities” are the likes of orange juice, wheat, pork belly etc), and as a result they hold huge sway around policy and legislation.

The ‘Imitation Food Rule’

As an example, consider what happened in the US in 1973. In 1938, the FDA passed a resolution (the ‘Imitation Food Rule’) that named a comprehensive list of ‘traditional foods’. This included bread, yoghurt, pasta, butter and other natural foods. They ruled that if you “substantially changed” the composition of any of these ‘traditional’ products, you could no longer call it ‘bread’, or ‘pasta’, but had to call it ‘Imitation Bread’ or ‘Imitation Pasta’.

In 1973, a significant lobby effort on the part of food producers resulted in this rule being repealed, paving the way for food producers to call re-engineered food, and imitation food, food.

What this means is that we now have a whole array of foods, being promoted as ‘healthy foods’, which technically, are hardly ‘food’ at all. Low-carb pasta should be called Low Carb Imitation Pasta – because it is not pasta any more. No-fat sour cream is not cream, there’s no cream at all in it. It is a completely manufactured product that has been designed to taste a bit similar to real sour cream.

And some of the breads mentioned earlier are barely bread, with the clear exception of breads like McCloskeys or Soul Bakery – which are real traditional breads made with real ingredients that come from nature. By completely breaking down natural foods in the processing and refining process, food producers reduce nutritionally dense natural foods to a nutritionally valueless imitation food. And they make billions of dollars (or euro) doing it, by promoting its convenience, its ‘healthiness’, or its novelty.

Here in Ireland, we are extremely lucky to be an agrarian society with a strong history of farming in our culture. Within the current recession, we are hearing great stories of how our agri-sector and artisan food sectors are growing, and substantially contributing to our strong export levels. This is potentially great news for us, as it means we as a nation can make a real choice to eat well and healthily.

How often do you read the labels?

But do we? How often do you read the labels of what you are buying – not for the calorie content, but to examine the list of ingredients? How often do you reach out for the small pot of pure, natural yoghurt being made in West Cork over the large pot of ‘Greek Style Yoghurt’ made by the multinational food company whose name we all recognise? Do you go to your local farmers market and buy the lumpy organic carrots, or do you pick up the sanitised, plastic bag of carrots from the German multinational supermarket down the road? What about your meat – do you have any idea where it comes from and what farming practices are being used to produce it?

In the US, 95 percent of cattle routinely receive estradiol, testosterone, progesterone, and anabolic steroids, not to mention the huge doses of antibiotics needed to control disease in feedlots. I won’t go into this further here but recommend you read Eric Schlosser’s Fast Food Nation if you wish to learn more. Trace residues of these drugs end up in the beef that gets eaten, along with concentrated doses of herbicides used in cattle feed, and pesticides and insecticides needed to control the rampant fly populations in feedlots. These drugs, hormones, chemicals, and poisons are being blamed for a host of modern human health crises, including dropping sperm counts and fertility rates, cancers, and our rising resistance to antibiotics.

As a nation, we are being actively encouraged right now to ‘buy Irish’ and ‘shop local’. We can do a tremendous amount to support our economy and get back to positive growth if we do so. But for me, the far more important reason to do so is not about the economy, it is about our health and wellbeing. Ireland is the second most obese nation in the world after the USA. Fertility rates are dropping alarmingly, rates of cancer and heart disease are high.

We are being bombarded with conflicting and untrue ‘statements of fact’ by food producers, simply to grow their bottom line. I suggest for 2012 you take the time to do some research, educate yourself about food and nutrition, not from your popular magazine, but from writers who have taken the time to do the in-depth investigations needed to really understand what is actually happening to our food, and as a result, your body and your health.

YouSteps Article: http://tinyurl.com/cs8tkcs

Michael Pollan, author of “In Defence of Food”, on YouTube: http://youtu.be/LWg0cCNAB-M

Help Design an Eating Disorder Support App and WIN!

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Simply tell us what you’d like an Eating Disorder Support App to offer you and you could not only win the competition, but also see your suggestions featured in our new App, launching at the end of 2012!

Our online programs for Eating Disorders already offer support for sufferers who want to use CBT to reduce their negative behaviours, address old family issues that may be holding them back, or want to use Mindfulness to help change how they behave and react to everyday stressors and situations.  See www.turninginstitute.com for more information.

Now we’re working on an App to provide day to day on the spot support, and crisis intervention.

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Positive Affirmations for Increasing Self-Esteem</strong>

Critical self-talk and hearing a negative, critical voice constantly are common features of eating distress and body image dissatisfaction. Being able to access short, key phrases that would help you challenge your inner critical voice straight away can help change how you think.

Q: What phrases would help you when you are feeling criticised in your own head? What affirmations do you use already?
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Immediate Interventions when the risk of Bingeing is High.</strong>

” I feel a binge coming on, what can I do instead?”

Q: What, if anything, have you found works for you? What have you been able to do some of the time to avoid bingeing? Let us know so we can tell other women and men in the same situation.
<strong>An Intervention After Bingeing.</strong>

“I’ve just binged and I feel dreadful.”
After a binge, the feelings of guilt and shame can be overwhelming and this is exactly when you could do with some support.

Q: What might help you feel better? What might help you draw a line under what just happened and move on feeling more positive? Have you been able to do anything that helps you? What might our App be able to offer?

<strong>Audio – relaxation exercises</strong>

Bingeing, restricting food, over exercising and purging are all coping strategies for stress or dealing with uncomfortable feelings. Being able to access a short audio program that guides you through a deep breathing exercise, or a relaxation exercise can help to begin to feel better without resorting to their negative behaviour.
Q: What helps you? A visualisation? A breathing exercise? A meditation? Something else?

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